Am i a bad influence?

i want to know if its ok that my 2 best friends husbands tell their wives they dont want them talking to me cause im single and talk to guys i go out to the bars and blah blah blah and they come with me and thete tired of it and onevof my friends cheated. but how is it my fault. there adults. .so am i a bad infulence or r they wrong. .very upset now cause my friend isnt talking to me now cuz of her hubby